And finally the last shades!

I know it's been a LONG time since my last post, sorry!  I had been sharing the story of my brush with "50 Shades of Grey."  By the way, I never miss an episode of Criminal Minds because I am convinced they'll have a case about a guy like Damien! 

Since it has been so long, let me give you the Cliff Notes version of the previous shades of grey:

• found prescription bottles in truck
• joked about room reserved at Moccasin Bend
• scar on arm
• Spike did not like him
• found out he had a daughter
• he had excuses for everything
• found out about a crazy ex when she stole his phone and sent me fake texts
• got in an argument at work, drew a knife on the guy, boss sent him for psych eval
• called said he was arrested
• had an outstanding warrant
• owed child support for another kid
• psych eval was bad
• hurt his back at work
• boss recommends he uses bad back as an excuse for disability since psych eval was bad
• still haven't seen his house
• finally invited to house, see huge dog cage
• fire in back yard he blames on the railroad trying to run him off his property
• tells about bad back
• tells about talking to cashier about cutting that she was doing
• volunteers with a suicide prevention group
• dog never sleeps in cage
• saw pictures of him at a rally with LOTS of other white guys
• bad back caused from retaliation by the guy he drew a knife on

As some of these counted as more then just one shade, I think I have 13 left.  I'm guessing you've discovered the real issues much quicker then I did.  They say, "hindsight's 20/20."  I say, "I'm glad I'm not a murder statistic!"

 

Please remember that this occurred back when I was freaked out about turning 40.  I don't think it could have happened before then and I know it couldn't happen now.  But being unmarried and nearing 40 can freak a person out!  (That's my story and I'm sticking to it!)

 

I mentioned in a previous blog that I started Googling him in every known form.  First, I found his myspace page and found out he was totally in love with some Gothic fiction writer.  They had had some sort of bizarre online, semi meet in person once relationship and when she tried to end it he stalked her and terrorized some online friend of hers.  I kept Googling and found out that he belonged to a couple of hate groups.  He was participating in white supremacist groups.  Kept Googling and found his profile on an "alternative" dating site.  Apparently, he was into things I had never even heard of!  He was into things that I am NOT going to mention in a blog.  If you are curious, just Google "freakin' idiots!"  lol  I will tell you that his profile on that site let me understand why he had a ginormous dog cage in his house.  It was NOT for the dog.

 

After my Google investigation, I realized what a total idiot I had been!  He called me and wanted to get together and I said I had plans.  He called a couple of more times and I was always busy.  He must have gotten the hint because I didn't hear from him for months.  Then, out of the blue, he emailed me and told me he thought I would be proud that he had cut his ties with the white supremacist groups.  Yes, like that was the only problem!  Bahaha!  

 

He managed to accept my break up as a break up, but I still keep an eye out for some freak coming near my house.  Sadly, I no longer have Spike to tell me the guy stinks, but I am pretty sure Augustus would not only bit Damien's leg, he'd pee on his shoe too!